Slow Sex to Feed Your Soul

Does your sex truly satisfy you?

What if your sex life was a way to feed your soul, rather than a way to satisfy an urge? Slow sex can and will nourish you in ways fast, hot sex just will not.

Think about the difference between fast food and a gourmet meal. 

One is made with cheap ingredients and the cooks aren’t putting their heart into it. It gets the job done, but doesn’t quite hit the spot. 

The other is prepared with premium ingredients and the chef takes their time. Everything about the experience nourishes you and the feeling of satisfaction stays with you.

The same goes for sex and intimacy.

This is the slow sex I’m talking about.

You can rush to the finish line and feel complete, yet empty.

Or

You can slow down and drop into a relaxed state of mind and enjoy every touch, whisper and kiss, leaving you feeling nourished and blissful.

How much pleasure do you allow yourself?

I mean real and lasting pleasure. The kind that lingers in your memory for days.

In today’s age, we are programmed and conditioned to work toward an end, to achieve, gain and build. And that is appropriate sometimes.

Our bodies are wired for deep and nourishing pleasure. We are inherently worthy of and designed for deep connection. We actually need to feel held, loved, cared for, desired.

In order for it to get all the way into our cells, we need to practice the art of slow sex. 

How does it work?

And that starts by shifting the way you interact with your world. 

I want to challenge you to notice where in your life you can start to slow down and find moments of pleasure and sensuality in your daily life.

Can you savor your food? Can you hug your partner or your pet a little longer and take a long breath? Can you touch yourself with more devotion? Can you enjoy the ride rather than pushing for the end?

If you need help slowing down or creating a nourishing intimate life, you know where to find me!

XO,

Margot