As humans, we have the right to feel loved and cared for. Sometimes we have received a different message from our family of origin, our religion, and our societal conditioning. Learning the art of Tantric Touch and Erotic Cuddle can be the key to unlock the love life you desire.
No matter what you look like, how successful you are at life, or how much experience you have, you deserve to feel pleasure at the hands of another.
After focusing on Tantra massage for the last 4 years, my interest is shifting. From working with so many male bodied people, I have learned that what men really need and desire is closeness. Deep, raw, primal intimacy. And yet, many men have no clue how to create this, how to ask for it, or how to receive it.
Tantric Touch is conscious touch
To touch another with love and care, with the primary desire to care for our partner. To show them you are there, present and open. To serve them and heal them. This requires the giver to be present and at home inside their own body and at the same time to pay attention to how your partner responds to your touch.
Does it help them relax or does it cause tension in their system? Does it open them up or make them contract?
Learning to touch someone with this level of awareness is a new experience for many. Maybe nobody ever showed you how. Maybe in the past you were shamed or shut down by someone when you tried to engage physically. Maybe you dont trust yourself. Maybe you you cant separate sex from intimacy and your touch has an agenda and your partner feels that and keeps their distance.
Whatever your reason for not knowing how to give this kind of physical affection, there is no reason not to learn how and to grow in your ability to give Tantric Touch.
Cuddling is an art form
Pressing your body against your partner’s body in order to let them feel your support and care for them requires body awareness, emotional availability and again, presence.
When was the last time you created time to just be with your partner physically, without having the goal of orgasm or simply to fall asleep?
I’m not talking about Netflix and chill vibes. What I am talking about is conscious connection for the purpose of healing and caring for your partner.
Anytime a couple or two friends choose to engage in cuddling, it is more about relaxation and intimacy and less about sex.
Add an erotic flavor to it and things get interesting!
Eros (/ˈɪərɒs/, US: /ˈɛrɒs, irɒs, -oʊs/; from Ancient Greek ἔρως (érōs) ‘love, desire‘) is a concept in ancient Greek philosophy referring to sensual or passionate love, from which the term erotic is derived.
Show love with the power of eros
The intention in an erotic cuddle is still to show love, but now it has a flavor of sensuality and passion. Meaning now the energy behind your presence is to invite your partner into their own sensuality. To help them turn on their internal sense of the pleasure of having a body at all.
While the eros is building inside each one of you, passion may present itself, the goal remains to be a presence of love, care and healing. We are now using the power of eros to deliver that love, care and healing. When the energy gets too hot, it is a good idea to remember the intention and slow things down and come back to stillness and just hold your partner in your arms and return to mindful breathing.
I am passionate about sharing the art of Tantric Touch and Erotic Cuddling
In these sessions, we connect first through words and create the intention and set boundaries. Then we sync our breath. We move into eye contact. When we begin to touch it is light and with curiosity. As the session unfolds, and our bodies open in a slow and relaxed way, we can explore each other without agenda. Our only goal is to give and receive the pleasure of loving touch and to continue to invite each other deeper in to the experience.
If you are looking to build skills in these areas, this is the session for you. If you are looking to practice these skills in preparation for a partner you will become more masterful. Even if you believe you are an advanced lover, it is a power move to go back to the basics with more consciousness.
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